08Jun/13

Oddly enough

A Saturday night not very long ago. I went out for an evening in Hillcrest with my friend Sheri. She and I work together; we like each other but don’t yet know each other that well. So this was sort of a move in that direction, getting to be better friends.

We got a sidewalk table at A Taste of Thai on University Avenue, beautiful day close to sunset, good cooking smells. We tucked into our food and conversation with equal enthusiasm.

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"This is such a cool town," I told her. "Last fall when I shaved my hair off, I was a spectacle everywhere

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01Jun/13
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How to Break the Cycle of Racism

The results of racism are everywhere: unemployment, police brutality, inadequate education, unacceptable housing – the list goes on. While the work to treat these symptoms of racism must continue, it is also essential to look at the causes of racism and take action to remove them.

Whether you’re working within a community organization or have made a commitment to do anti-racism work on your own, you need to define the terms:

Prejudice: an emotional commitment to ignorance

Power: control over economic and social institutions

Racism: race prejudice plus power

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Looking at these

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21Dec/12

Hunting for Ms. Perfect?

So everyday you hope to meet the perfect dating woman. The woman who you have been dreaming about. But in reality, you are getting no where. This must be telling on your psyche…where is my Queen of Romance?…this must be my bad luck …do they happen only in movies or to someone else? Stop feeling so lost and hopeless.

The truth of the matter is that while it has nothing to do with your luck, good or bad, but everything to do with you! Like most people, you probably have embarked upon this dating game with your eyes closed. You got so caught up in this whole exercise of dating that you forgot to look for the qualities

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07Dec/12

Six Ways to Flatter Your Date

Clichés and generic compliments won’t do much to impress that special someone. What works much better? Find out with this list of six ways to flatter your significant other.

Sure, being good-looking and charming will certainly make you more of a catch. But there’s an even more crucial component to attracting others that’s so simple we almost feel weird saying it: make your date feel good-looking and charming. Do that, and trust us… this person will be

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30Nov/12

Shaking up her Chakras – Tantric techniques to turn her on

The methods below were recommended by experts in tantric sex, accupressure, and Oriental body work. To do the techniques properly, you need to know a few things. First, all the types of touch described below should be slow, soft, and gentle. Change the way you touch her every 30-60 seconds. Alternating sensations – from touching to kissing, lighter or harder touches – builds the sexual charge.

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Another tip: Look for areas which feel cool to the touch. When you softly stroke the spot until it warms up, you release energy that enhances her arousal. Eastern medical traditions define arousal as an increased energetic state with corresponding physical changes. By stimulating

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